Is anyone really free from baggage? If so, they may have something to teach us.
Aftermath
It’s been a long two weeks, and while I’m not sure I have the strength to get through the day, I’m going to try. That’s all I can do, right?
My Mother and My Grandmother
The last week hasn’t been an easy one, not by a long shot. I managed to get my mother back, but we lost someone else.
Your Father….
“You’re father….” I get a sick feeling in my stomach to this day when I read those words. Two words shouldn’t do that, should they? But it’s all about context, especially in this case. And for some reason, the words were seriously bothering me this past Sunday night. I’ve met some colorful people over the […]
Chasing Shadows
“Nothing’s the same anymore.” (Commander Jeffrey Sinclair, Babylon 5) And he’s correct. I don’t mind change. You’re thinking I’m lying, right? Well, the truth is I don’t mind change as long as things stay somewhat the same. For instance? I miss the way Twinkies taste. They were softer and full of flavor as a child. […]
When It Finally Feels Real
A friend of ours who Ralph used to live with while he worked in Chicago many years back passed away a week ago. This came as somewhat unexpected news because while Marianne had several things going wrong with her, she always rallied. Always. Kinda of like a cat with 9 lives, plus a few extra. […]
Have A Nice Life
I remember the first time I heard this phrase and it stuck with me. I was listening to Cyndi Lauper’s Christmas album and she says it in a song. It struck me as…ironic? Not mean since it’s a Christmas album. I’ve heard the phrase said in a less-than-happy way. Actually, someone said it to me […]
Hope
Every time I think I should sit down and write a blog post, I keep thinking of the hundreds of them I lost and I just can’t find the strength to do it. Ironic considering the title of this one, isn’t it? I’m trying to be hopeful or at least find hope in some things […]
The Closing of the Year (2017)
I woke up this morning (Sunday) after realizing I smelled my father’s cologne. He wore a specific scent as far back as I can remember, and I’ve always associated it with him. Mom hasn’t felt dad’s presence since he passed away. I have from time to time. A couple of action flicks played on the […]
An Explanation Of Sorts
My husband, Ralph, told me his Chinese horoscope stated 2017 would be a year of change. This has held true and not just for him.

